The year I was seventeen, York University in Toronto held their first Symposium, for High School students across Canada. Winners spent a weekend at York presenting their winning entry and generally soaking up the university atmosphere (and, of course, being subtly wooed by the university). In this photo I am with two other winners and two of the Profs involved in the symposium that year.

The boy on my left won for research in medicine, the boy on my right, with glasses, for biology (he also became my boyfriend for 3 years, took me to his prom and I took him to mine.)

My winning entry? For poetry. Afraid I couldn't dig up that entry, but you'll be seeing some of my poetry in upcoming posts. I wrote poetry from - oh, grade two, probably - until I got married. (No one is ever going to see the Grade Two stuff, so don't ask!)  When I started writing again, 20 years later, I was more interested in writing fiction, which is what I mostly write now, along with memoir.

But here is the poem I wrote on breaking up with this lovely young man, my first boyfriend:

Autumn Air

Thin and bland
are our
decaffeinated
coffee conversations
as we politely
distance our affections.

Like smokers cutting down
or mallards
preparing for departure,
we recognize
the autumn air
between us.

 


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10/18/2012 1:20pm

Wow, that is an impressive first break-up poem. I like the imagery.
I wrote my first break-up poem while sobbing away at two in the morning; needless to say, it is a disaster.

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10/18/2012 2:21pm

Your poem is gorgeous.

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10/18/2012 2:26pm

Ahhh. I like your comparison to migrating mallards! It is not surprising that a scientist and a poet might have their differences. But what a great opportunity for you to represent your high school (and females) by winning that contest. (BTW you look about 12-y-o in that picture!)

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10/18/2012 5:48pm

Also, what was that boy's suit jacket made of? Velvet? Corduroy?

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10/19/2012 2:01am

I love that poem. Some break ups are exactly like that. And not just romantic ones. I've had friendships and jobs end in exactly that autumn air.

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10/20/2012 1:16am

Thanks, Alexandra, for your positive comment.

Anna, yes, it was a velveteen corduroy. Kinda dates us, eh? I wasn't sobbing 'cause I was the one who ended it, but I was still sad.

Thanks, Kim. I was about as naive as a 12 yo, too, but I was 17. And you guessed right - he thought science was all that mattered, and I thought poetry and literature was all that mattered. We weren't meant to be.

Thanks, Joy, Yes, all endings are sad - I'm the nostalgic type. The good endings are Autumn - the bad ones are a winter ice-storm!

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10/22/2012 3:44am

Decaffeinated coffee conversations is such a good description of what leads to a break-up. I love it :)

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10/22/2012 3:49am

Thanks, MD. I look forward to catching up on your posts!

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